If you're reading this, consider this: have you recently indicated how fed up/exhausted/over 'dating' you were (let's say in the previous 18 months)? but never looked into what might have been the basis of the problem? You say things like 'Dating is the same for everyone' and 'No one is searching for anything serious,' but you keep using the same apps and following the same methods, as if you're locked in a habit without trying to break it?
Don't worry, you're not the only one who feels this way. "Most people are unhappy with an aspect of their life, but not unhappy enough to do anything about it," self-help expert Tony Robbins once said. Unfortunately, 90% of the population falls into this category. This guideline applies to dating as well...but why? Don’t we (primarily) want to discover someone who enriches our lives, who is there to support us through our highs and lows. I'm sure I do.
However, the purpose of this essay is not to make you feel awful; rather, I want to introduce you to a new concept for dating that addresses common dating mistakes that we're all doing and demonstrate how simple it is to correct them via video speed dating!
Chemistry is a two-part storey.
So the one biggest issue with the current dating seen is wasted time. You've been talking for to someone via message for a few weeks now and you and your match are going to meet. The conversation has been enjoyable, and he/she does not appear to be a complete moron. To say the least, you're looking forward to the date.
You finally meet.. After two hours, the enthusiasm had given way to tiredness. What went wrong? Simply put, your personalities didn't mesh. He was chalk, and you were cheese, and no matter what anyone tells you, you'll never be able to make this sandwich work.
The Solution: If only there was a method to properly get to know a person's nature without committing an entire evening if the person didn't suit? Allow me to introduce you to Slush Dating!
You'll learn more about someone than simply their appearance in a 3–5 minute speed date: you'll notice their nuances, personality, and get a sense of what they'd be like in person. And you can do it all from the convenience of your own home. Swiping was supposed to bring us closer together in a pleasant way by expanding our pool of potential matches. Instead, we're dealing with disconnected, dehumanised, and simply nonsense encounters.
So what are you waiting for? Sign up for Slush Dating (Coming soon, August 2024 IOS/Android)
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